Best Man Duties
The best man is a stand up guy, which is why you want him standing up with you on your wedding day! But, what is the best man in charge of? Here is our list of Best Man duties:
Before the Wedding
Be there (in-person or via technology) to support the groom during engagement/wedding planning
Help shop for THE ring (if he asks you to help)
Assist in planning what the groomsmen will wear on wedding day
Lead the groomsmen and make sure they are all on the same page (attire, wedding events, travel logistics, wedding day schedule, etc.)
Plan the bachelor party
Attend all pre-wedding events (engagement party, bachelor party, rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, welcome events, etc.)
Coordinate with the wedding planner and/or vendors or Maid of Honor to be a point-of-contact on the big day
On Wedding Day
Make sure the groom and groomsmen get ready on time and get to the venue on time
Know how to properly tie a tie and/or bowtie
Make sure everyone is wearing a boutonniere (if there are boutonnieres)
Keep the groom calm and happy
Hold the bride’s ring during the ceremony (or both rings)
Sign the marriage license
Keep the groomsmen around for pictures
Give a toast
Dance and have fun!
Decorate the getaway car (if applicable)
After the Wedding
Make sure any rented clothing (from the groom/groomsmen) is returned on time
This is a busy time, but it’s also a chance to hang out with your best bud a bunch before the wedding. Have fun!